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LETTING GO

Letting Go

By Anonymous

To let go doesn’t mean to stop caring;
It means I can’t do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off…
It’s the realization that I can’t control another…

11709839_1015621243437j7355_8111524924143509671_nTo let go is not to enable,
but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To let go is not to try and change or blame another,
I can only change myself.
To let go is not to care for, but to care about.
To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their own outcomes.

To let go is not to be protective,
It is to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny, but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue,
but to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish the moment.
To let go is not to criticize and regulate anyone,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.
To let go is to fear less and love more.

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ALWAYS REMEMBER

529816_619672701383408_223132372_nAlways Remember

By Anonymous
Always remember to forget
The things that made you sad
But never forget to remember
The things that made you glad.

Always remember to forget
The friends that proved untrue.
But don’t forget to remember
Those that have stuck by you.

Always remember to forget
The troubles that have passed away.
But never forget to remember
The blessings that come each day.

COSMIC FORCE OF HABIT AND FREE WILL

COSMIC FORCE OF HABIT AND FREE WILL

[Extract from THE SECRET LAW OF ATTRACTION as explained by Napoleon Hill]

The following is adapted from Napoleon Hill’s explanation excerpted from law of Success: The 21st century edition:

dscf6602Every living thing below the intelligence of man lives, reproduces itself, and fulfills its earthly mission in direct response to the power of cosmic force of habit through what we call instinct.
Man alone has been given the privilege of choice with connection with his living habits, and this he may fix by the patterns of his thoughts.

You may control your destiny to an outstanding degree – simply by exercising the privilege of shaping your own thoughts. Once these thoughts have been shaped into definite patterns, they are taken over by the law of cosmic Habitforce and are made into permanent habits, and they remain as such unless and until they have been supplanted by different and stronger thought patterns.

In all of nature there are fixed habits. Water always has two atoms of hydrogen, never one; apple seeds never grow into Orange trees; and nobody ever falls off the earth for lack of gravity. Every aspect of life relies upon the laws of nature to make sure that if we do A, then B will always be the result.

Cosmic Habitforce is the law of nature that says habits become part of your nature through repetition. If you keep repeating certain ideas in your mind, Cosmic Habitforce will take over those patterns of thought and make them your natural reaction.

IT CAN WORK FOR YOU, OR IT CAN WORK AGAINST YOU!!

 

 

SELF – CONTROL

Self-Control
By Anonymous

dscf5967-2I’ve heard it said don’t go to bed
while hanging on to sorrow,
you may not have the chance to laugh
with those you love tomorrow.

You may not mean the words you speak
when anger takes its toll,
you may regret your actions
once you’ve lost your self-control.

When you’ve lost your temper
and you’ve said some hurtful things,
think about the heartache
that your actions sometimes bring.

You’ll never get those moments back,
such precious time to waste,
and all because of things you said
in anger and in haste.

So if you really love someone
and your pride has settled in,
you may not ever have the chance
to say to them again….

“I love you and I miss you,
and although we don’t agree,
I’ll try to see your point of view,
please do the same for me.”

THE FRIEND WHO JUST STANDS BY

The Friend Who Just Stands By
By Anonymous

me-n-shantelWhen troubles come your soul to try,
You love the friend who just stands by.
Perhaps there’s nothing they can do,
The thing is strictly up to you.

For there are troubles all your own,
And paths the soul must tread alone.
Times when love can’t smooth the road,
Nor friendship lift the heavy load.

But just to feel you have a friend,
Who will stand by until the end.
Whose sympathy through all endures,
Whose warm handclasp is always yours.

It helps somehow to pull you through,
Although there’s nothing they can do.
And so with fervent heart we cry,
God Bless the friend who just stands by.